10 days later… never too late for the 4 month update!
Every month so far in our wonderful marriage has been quite the unique experience. We have grown so much both as individuals and as one together over the past four months.
I don’t think we’ll ever have as many exciting photos to share as the first couple months but I’m finding that so many of my memories lately are the ones that can’t be captured on film. (Although we did have tons of fun on a road trip this month!)
I haven’t been in the best of moods this month… compared to others. I’ve been back at work for almost 3 months now, and the excitement in that has pasted. Often I come home tired and cranky. I’m hesitant to write some of this because it seems so much more dramatic when written than what reality is. Although maybe that’s what I need. To put it right in front of my face in black and white, in 1′s and 0′s (a little computer nerd reference), so that I remind myself how silly it is to bring work stress home.
The kitchen the month hasn’t been cleaned every day, the bed isn’t always made, we’ve eaten out way more than I would prefer. Today was the most ridiculous day at work that I’ve ever had which is why I just realize this post is really negative!
So let’s flip the switch. What has pulled me through this month, and made me love Mark even more! Since we’ve been married I’ve picked up a few new hobbies and some old ones. I currently have (what I consider) a HUGE garden on my back porch. It consists of basil, 3 types of tomatoes, 3 types of peppers, rosemary, lavender, strawberry plant, mint, sage, a type of cilantro, and I’m sure I’ve forgotten something; and I can’t forget my original plants the Aloe Vera, Succulent Plant, and Cactus. They are huge now! Remember then from our two month post?


It seems silly our little garden on the shelve but it actually helps me so much with stress. I spend 15-30 minutes working on it a day; clearing out wilted leaves, watering, ect. I love seeing how much each of the plants have grown day to day; and if one unfortunately does take a turn for the worst it is the best feeling when I treat it and come back the next day to see it standing tall and extra green! It’s kind of an expensive hobby but I love the investment! And I have to thank my beloved for introducing me. He basically said ‘You need this” in such sweeter words!
The hobby Mark picked up since our marriage is fixing bikes, and he is so good at it! If it was up to him he’d keep every bike he touched, but with a little loving encouragement he’s sold two already! We happen to have four though. He has a great explanation for why we need two bikes each, and I love both of mine so much I conceited easily to his explanation. Here is one of bikes he has customized to perfection!

Some highlights of this month were definitely participating in our first church event. We loved it and had so much fun! It was a spaghetti dinner to sponsor the finishing touches on the school’s new kitchen. We thought we were just buying dinner tickets to support and were going to swing by and pick up some spaghetti and head home. Boy were we wrong! It was a 3 course dinner, starting with a salad, then a huge portion of spaghetti, THEN a nice piece of a cake of our choice; all served to us by the Sisters and other volunteers! The music director played awesome music from the 60s and 70s for us during dinner, and there was even some hilarious Catholic humor from one of the members who did a little stand-up comedy! Mark and I tried to take our photo several times that night to capture how much fun we were having but the phone wasn’t cooperating! But the photos came out fun anyway.

Right before the 4 months ended we found out that our PRIMO ( and the best man @ the wedding) was going to be in Las Angeles. The best part about living in northern Arizona is it’s centrally located to pretty much anywhere in the western side of the US. A trip to L.A., Vegas, Colorado, ect is as simple as the trip between Fort Worth and Houston! So without question we headed out there for a visit! Carlos had to work pretty much the whole time but we were still so glad to see him for the bit we did. We miss family sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much! Did I emphasize my points with enough o’s? The trip deserves it’s own post and it definitely will get it… eventually! For now I have to post me being a fat kid with the best tacos from a taco truck, EVER!

AHH! I need to blog more! There have been so many great moments this month, like driving through Hell, Mexican Nyquil, Native Gallery openings, Mexican Galleries, a little Edward James Olmos… you know the little events.
So my goal for month 5 is definitely to post more, and it’s half way gone so I better get to work!
I guess I didn’t really post any deep relationship growth in this post. Like I said some of it is so hard to write, but just writing about our month has put me in a better mood and made me even more grateful for Mark! (And he’s now dancing around our living room to the Pandora station we have on; but don’t tell him I told you! I LOVE THIS MAN!) If you made it this far… thanks for listening me vent.
